If you’ve already had an unplanned pregnancy and chose an abortion, you might be surprised to find yourself pregnant again. Unplanned pregnancies happen, and you have options.
The Open Door is here to help provide early pregnancy services, support, and information on every option so you can make an informed choice. Contact us today to schedule a free and confidential appointment at our Breckenridge or Cisco location.
Your Two Alternatives to Abortion
Because you have already ruled out abortion for this pregnancy, you have two other options: parenting and adoption. While they both involve carrying your pregnancy to term and bringing a child into the world, the similarities mainly stop there.
Here’s a look into each option.
Parenting at a Glimpse
Parenting could be one of the hardest things you ever do, but it can also come with the rewards of love and a lifelong relationship. When considering parenting, really examine your heart and desires for the future.
Do you want to have a child and be a parent? Are you ready for the responsibilities of caring for the child and making sure they thrive?
Maybe it wasn’t the ideal timing, but if parenting was on your goals list, you might want to consider it. Having maternal desires can make choices like adoption and abortion more emotionally difficult, so if you feel a pull toward parenting, it’s important to explore.
Even if it doesn’t feel possible right now, many resources are available to help you, including parenting classes and material support at The Open Door. We can talk with you about your needs and connect you with other helpful organizations as well.
Adoption at a Glimpse
If you choose adoption, you will not have the responsibility of raising a child. Instead, you will transfer that responsibility to an adoptive parent or couple.
As the birth mother, you can choose the adoptive family and the adoption plan. Each type of plan comes with different levels of contact.
Keep in mind an open adoption, one where you have direct contact with the adoptive family and child, is not legally enforceable in Texas, so it’s crucial that you consider this as you review adoption plans.
You also can receive financial assistance as the birth mother, including coverage for adoption expenses, legal fees, and medical expenses not covered by insurance. The adoptive family typically will cover these expenses. However, each state’s laws differ.
If considering adoption, think about the long-term as well as the short-term.
In the short term, you may receive helpful assistance, assurance that your child will be cared for in a safe home, and know that you can continue your current lifestyle after pregnancy. However, you also have to know you won’t have the same relationship with your child as you would as a parent and will not be able to co-parent with the adoptive family.
The Choice Is Yours
It’s incredibly important to review both options carefully. Parenting and adoption are both long-term commitments. Which could you see yourself choosing?
Visit The Open Door today for early pregnancy services and to learn about your options. We’re here to listen and encourage you during this time. Schedule your free appointment today.